Tuesday, November 24, 2015

Week 10: Transitions in Marriage: Fidelity and Physical Intimacy

Learning about sexual intimacy in marriage can seem uncomfortable and for many it is. We have reached a time in this world where some parents rely on schools to teach their children the importance of chastity and sexual purity. Children need to learn about sex with an open mind. Sex isn’t meant to be seen as a fun activity between two random people. God intended it to be an expression of love for you and your spouse to bring you together and make you one. But the world’s view of sex has been so skewed and messed with to the point of degrading it. Sex is such a casual thing in today’s world, but that is so far from the truth of the meaning of sex and love between a husband and wife. Elder Richard G. Scott said:
“Within the enduring covenant of marriage, the Lord permits husband and wife the expression of the sacred procreative powers in all their loveliness and beauty within the bounds He has set. One purpose of this private, sacred, intimate experience is to provide the physical bodies for the spirits Father in Heaven wants to experience mortality. Another reason for these powerful and beautiful feelings of love is to bind husband and wife together in loyalty, fidelity, considerations of each other, and common purpose.”
The expression of love in a marriage is crucial to the development and evolvement of the relationship. Sexual intimacy’s main purpose is for procreation and bringing children into a home where that can be nourished and grow in a safe environment. Understanding this principle is critical to creating and maintaining a healthy relationship with your spouse. President Spencer W. Kimball stated:
Sex is for procreation and expression of love. It is the destiny of men and women to join together to make eternal family units. In the context of lawful marriage, the intimacy of sexual relations is right and divinely approved. There is nothing unholy or degrading about sexuality in itself, for by that means men and women join in a process of creation and in an expression of love.”
How has this changed your perception and view on sexual intimacy in marriage and in the world?


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